Proclaiming her tie with her twin kids Emme & Max, Jennifer Lopez opened the heart touching journey she took while getting divorced from Ben Affleck during an honest interview. Lopez sued for divorce in April citing irretrievable differences. The couple’s separation became public in August.
Lopez said that last year had been extremely trying, and she had found strength through reflection, meditation, and prayer. It was terribly hard for me. Things occurred unexpectedly.
Telling her twins about her split up with the twins, Lopez fostered comfort in them, “I promise you, this is a tough moment, but you’re going to see that I’ll come out the other side stronger and better”. Lopez was comfortable with this promise as she seemed to resonate with its message with her children.
Through her experience of individual, couples, and family therapy the artist underscored the necessity of self discovery in terms of self development. Learning about oneself is everything. Knowing oneself is everything. You need to be prepared for it, she said.
Ben Affleck on the other hand has stated that talking about each other’s problems makes him vulnerable. There are no unseemly controversies, no soaps operas, no intrigue. There is nothing in the reality when you approach anyone; “Hey, what happened?”. “What happened was this,” he said, downplaying the drama.
Reportedly Lopez and Affleck are both in the market for a new functioning partnership as they move on. Although Lopez is said to be keen on dating once again, spurred on by her pals, a friend vented that Affleck is also looking to settle in and have more kids.
Lopez looks away from the changes as she focuses on her kids and own personal development as living as a single mother is complicated and she negotiates this. Her writing is an acknowledgement of tenacity and strength of self-love 1.
